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more about me | recommend this blog</description><title>Ramkumar's Log</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @ramkumarshankar)</generator><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/</link><item><title>A what-the-hell-is-this moment in iTunes 10.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l84p0sWGgi1qz4m0po1_100.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;A what-the-hell-is-this moment in iTunes 10.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/1053915242</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/1053915242</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 00:41:16 +0800</pubDate><category>Apple</category><category>iTunes</category><category>wth</category></item><item><title>Ask a real musician: 5 classic male metal singers</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.invisibleoranges.com/2010/07/ask-a-real-musician-5-classic-male-metal-singers/"&gt;Ask a real musician: 5 classic male metal singers&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;An interesting ‘outsider’ opinion on 5 well known male metal singers. I concur with her assessment. Also, seeing as I’ve been hooked to the Iron Maiden album nowadays, it’s good to see Bruce Dickinson scoring very highly according to her. To an extent, it also helped me understand why and how some singers are able to command such presence.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/1003643678</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/1003643678</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2010 22:32:23 +0800</pubDate><category>metal</category><category>music</category><category>singers</category></item><item><title>Rands In Repose: How to Run a Meeting</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.randsinrepose.com/archives/2010/08/19/how_to_run_a_meeting.html"&gt;Rands In Repose: How to Run a Meeting&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Some great pointers here. Love the closing:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Meetings must exist, but meetings cannot be seen as the only solution for making progress. If you must meet, start the meeting by remembering the definition of a successful meeting is that when the meeting is done, it need never occur again.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/977285276</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/977285276</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 22:10:04 +0800</pubDate><category>productivity</category><category>office</category><category>meetings</category></item><item><title>"I am constantly torn between the heroes of the east — who are heroes for their ability to see things..."</title><description>“I am constantly torn between the heroes of the east — who are heroes for their ability to see things as they really are — and the heroes of the west — who are heroes for their ability to see things that are not but that should be, and then to build them. One is mainly about accepting, the other is mainly about rejecting and creating. Being from the U.S., it is natural for me to have the second kind of heroes, even as I see the wisdom of the first. But whenever I try to behave like an eastern hero, it always feels like posing, wasting time, or giving up.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://number27.org/today.php?d=20100526"&gt;Jonathan Harris . Clouds and coins&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Jonathan is keeping one of my favorite blogs these days. It reminds me how rare it is to find thoughtful, emotional contemplation (especially online), and how valuable those things really are to our lives.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a href="http://blog.frankchimero.com/"&gt;viafrank&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/976544318</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/976544318</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 17:38:34 +0800</pubDate></item><item><title>"It’s incredible how many people have proposed to me that I do all the work and get as much as 20% of..."</title><description>“It’s incredible how many people have proposed to me that I do all the work and get as much as 20% of the company.  I enjoy listening to these business types as they tell me about their business plan and how the website should work (because they’re masters of UI design).  If I could somehow turn each of these pitches into $0.01 I would already be a millionaire.  I enjoy it when people ask me to utilize a skill I spent 10 years perfecting, that I earn a top 10% income at, for free.  I love it when they offer me 5-20% of the company I’ll end up building.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://joshuavolz.com/2010/08/16/business-cofounders-are-a-dime-a-dozen/"&gt;Joshua Volz&lt;/a&gt;, with a colourful response to &lt;a href="http://captainrecruiter.blogspot.com/2010/08/technical-co-founders-are-myth.html"&gt;Technical Cofounders are a Myth&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/960634407</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/960634407</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 11:31:00 +0800</pubDate></item><item><title>(via)</title><description>&lt;img src="http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l76sj3pIHW1qz4m0po1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;(&lt;a href="http://www.thedoghousediaries.com/?p=1843"&gt;via&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/956720334</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/956720334</guid><pubDate>Sun, 15 Aug 2010 17:18:00 +0800</pubDate><category>skype</category><category>comic</category><category>funny</category></item><item><title>"That guy has too much spare time” is one of the most odious, intellectually dishonest,..."</title><description>““That guy has too much spare time” is one of the most odious, intellectually dishonest, dismissive things a person can say. It disguises a vicious ad-hominem attack as a lighthearted verbal shrug. The subtext of the remark is that the subject’s passions — this remark is almost always directed at someone engaged in some labor of love — are so meritless that their specific shortcomings don’t even warrant discussion.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Cory Doctorow on the &lt;a href="http://boingboing.net/2002/02/03/too-much-time-on-his.html"&gt;importance of taking interest in what other people care about&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/942892622</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/942892622</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2010 01:10:01 +0800</pubDate></item><item><title>Unsuck It</title><description>&lt;a href="http://unsuck-it.com/"&gt;Unsuck It&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Translate awful corporate speak to plain English. Painful at times but mostly hilarious.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/942651672</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/942651672</guid><pubDate>Fri, 13 Aug 2010 00:02:58 +0800</pubDate><category>random</category><category>work</category><category>english</category><category>language</category></item><item><title>This is pretty much the type of device I was thinking about...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l71awiRrZ81qz4m0po1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is pretty much the type of device I was thinking about since I got the PSP Go. Finally a PlayStation phone? (&lt;a href="http://www.engadget.com/2010/08/11/exclusive-sony-ericsson-to-introduce-android-3-0-gaming-platfor/"&gt;via&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/941629364</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/941629364</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 18:09:54 +0800</pubDate></item><item><title>"Google likes to take jabs at Apple’s closed iPhone system, as Google exec Vic Gundotra did at..."</title><description>“Google likes to take jabs at Apple’s closed iPhone system, as Google exec Vic Gundotra did at Google’s I/O developer conference this spring. But that’s just a rhetorical sideshow. Mobile openness is the tool of the outsider, not the incumbent. Google is now registering some 200,000 Android handsets every day. Phone-to-phone, Android is now outselling the iPhone. Google doesn’t need openness anymore.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Ryan Singel on “&lt;a href="http://www.wired.com/epicenter/2010/08/why-google-became-a-carrier-humping-net-neutrality-surrender-monkey/all/1"&gt;why Google Became A Carrier-Humping, Net Neutrality Surrender Monkey&lt;/a&gt;”&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/935089656</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/935089656</guid><pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 11:15:33 +0800</pubDate><category>Google</category><category>mobile</category><category>net neutrality</category></item><item><title>Dark Forces are Gathering</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.ideasonideas.com/2010/08/dark-forces-are-gathering/"&gt;Dark Forces are Gathering&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Eric Karjaluoto with a poignant piece on the urgent imperative to reassess how we live our lives on this planet.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I’d argue that we’re in just this sort of a “pickle”: as individuals, as nations, and as a society. We treat profit as our sole measure of economic health. We’ve bought into the myth that our excessive wealth doesn’t come at any cost to others. We have also held fast to the notion that the next thing (be it: car, house, suit, promotion, or raise) will somehow be the one that finally makes us happy. This last example seems to be the most odd of the lot: underscoring our inability to actually learn very much from our actions. We repeat this behavior ad infinitum, even in spite of the constant reminder that few material or monetary gains ever fill the voids we sometimes feel.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;We continue in this ‘pickle’, he says, because we would otherwise have to confront all the flawed choices we have made so far. It’s just easier not to.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;We’re running out of clean water, experiencing mass extinctions, have massive islands of plastic floating in our oceans, and (when I last checked), BP had barfed something like 4.1 million barrels of oil into our oceans. This is really just the tip of the iceberg—but all relatively good indications that we must take some kind of drastic action. Still, we sit, silently, tossing about phrases like “sustainability,” “social responsibility,” and “doing good,” as though uttering these words might somehow affect sufficient change.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Meanwhile, our behaviour has only left more to be desired.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;We have “retail therapy,” an increasing list of things we “deserve,” and maybe even a little extra “me time” at the mall. And of course we do… because it’s easier to talk about the iPhone 4 and its lovely new display, than it is to ask whether our lust for new gadgets needs to be rethought in light of the conflict minerals they are most likely reliant upon. Similarly, it’s easier to point the finger at BP for their blunders, than it is for us to actually park our cars and instead sit on the bus next to “Mr. Stinky,” who perhaps treats baths as a “quarterly affair.” Fairness is inconvenient, so, we cast it aside and order another Big Mac (pity they don’t come in those neat styrofoam containers any longer).&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;The core problems: laziness, greed and stupidity.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;My deep worry is that forces have in fact aligned, but instead of being comprised of “Disney-esque” villains, these forces are ones of laziness, greed, and stupidity. When we occasionally look past this thin illusion of “everything being OK,” that we’ve grown so accustomed to, we’re left facing a situation that is difficult to pawn off on anyone else. We’ve sown seeds with perilous consequences. Sadly, we’re too busy tweeting, obsessing over the amount of froth in our lattes, and asking whether we’ve “found ourselves,” to stop for a moment and ask, “is this all really worth the cost?”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/930480743</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/930480743</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 13:23:00 +0800</pubDate><category>environment</category><category>society</category><category>life</category></item><item><title>The Facebook ‘Meh’ Button, with real-time.

When...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l6w5lisvSM1qz4m0po1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;The Facebook ‘Meh’ Button, with real-time.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;When clicked, the number goes up on everyone’s computer screen, instantly. Why build real-time apathy? It’s important to see exactly how many people don’t care without needing a page reload.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/927389653</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/927389653</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 23:27:18 +0800</pubDate><category>facebook</category><category>meh</category></item><item><title>I love this doctor</title><description>Doctor: Anything stressing you out lately? Like a lack of sleep?&lt;br /&gt;&#13;
Me: No, nothing. Hmm...I have been playing Starcraft 2 a fair bit this week.&lt;br /&gt;&#13;
Doctor: Ah, so you're a fan too. I want to get it for my daughter. I think it's quite a rewarding game. Well, I can give you a medical certificate so you can take the day off and play more Starcraft 2.</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/910707592</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/910707592</guid><pubDate>Fri, 06 Aug 2010 11:18:01 +0800</pubDate><category>Starcraft 2</category><category>gaming</category><category>conversation</category></item><item><title>Valedictorian Speaks Out Against Schooling in Graduation Speech</title><description>&lt;a href="http://blog.swiftkickonline.com/2010/07/valedictorian-speaks-out-against-schooling-in-graduation-speech.html"&gt;Valedictorian Speaks Out Against Schooling in Graduation Speech&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Deconstructing the educational system.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Some of you may be thinking, “Well, if you pass a test, or become valedictorian, didn’t you learn something? Well, yes, you learned something, but not all that you could have. Perhaps, you only learned how to memorize names, places, and dates to later on forget in order to clear your mind for the next test. School is not all that it can be. Right now, it is a place for most people to determine that their goal is to get out as soon as possible.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/902852068</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/902852068</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 21:07:33 +0800</pubDate><category>education</category></item><item><title>IDEO re-thinks the ATM</title><description>&lt;a href="http://futureselfservicebanking.com/"&gt;IDEO re-thinks the ATM&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/883869753</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/883869753</guid><pubDate>Sat, 31 Jul 2010 18:27:40 +0800</pubDate></item><item><title>This is great.

What I love about the ‘A Bit More’...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l6cykfrw9a1qz4m0po1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is great.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;What I love about the ‘A Bit More’ button on &lt;a href="http://www.breville.com.au/products_detail.asp?prod=449"&gt;this toaster&lt;/a&gt; is not just the functionality, though that’s clearly come some from careful observation of everyday habits, but the name. It could so easily have been called ‘Power boost’ or ‘Toast+’ or ‘Extend’, or something else unthinkingly derived from an engineering- or technology-led process.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;(&lt;a href="http://www.cityofsound.com/blog/2010/07/interaction-design-classics-3-the-a-bit-more-button-on-the-breville-professional-800-collection-4sli.html"&gt;via&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/878645104</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/878645104</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jul 2010 14:41:03 +0800</pubDate><category>design</category><category>usability</category></item><item><title>If Women Ruled the World, Nothing Would Be Different</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.lipmagazine.org/articles/featjervis_femmenism.html"&gt;If Women Ruled the World, Nothing Would Be Different&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;“The biggest problem with American feminism today is its obsession with women.”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This article is 5 years old, but still very relevant. Lisa Jervis pretty much nails it here. What is wrong with feminism today?&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;…much of the contemporary American feminist movement is preoccupied with the mistaken belief—call it &lt;em&gt;femmenism&lt;/em&gt;—that female leadership is inherently different from male; that having more women in positions of power, authority, or visibility will automatically lead to, or can be equated with, feminist social change; that women are uniquely equipped as a force for action on a given issue; and that isolating feminist work as solely pertaining to women is necessary or even useful.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Instead, she proceeds to make what is in essence a simple but oh-so vital point. It’s not about women, it’s about gender.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;…a useful, idealistic, transformative progressive feminism is not about women. It’s about gender, and all the legal and cultural rules that govern it, and power—who has it and what they do with it.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;After a little detour about we ended up here, she quotes various examples of women’s organizations and eventually gets to it.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;But the problem with femmenism goes even deeper than these strategic missteps. Because it’s founded on gender difference, it retains a strong investment in gender divisions. Not only will we never dismantle gender discrimination as long as gender divisions are philosophically important to feminism, but we’ll end up reproducing the gendered oppression we’re supposedly fighting against.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Femmenism seeks a circumscribed set of qualities for womanhood the same way that conservative, gender-traditional patriarchy does. (…) This sort of gender essentialism can be particularly divisive when it comes to women’s and feminist activism, because it polices the boundaries of womanhood; implicitly or overtly, femmenist organizations, groups, and events require a certain degree of “femininity” for participation.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;And the goal? Stop clinging to gender categories.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;If we cling to any gender categories at all, we lose out on tremendous liberatory potential. In other words, the half-witted, sentimental obsession with women that is femmenism causes sloppy thinking, intellectual dishonesty, and massive strategic errors. Thanks to the tremendous feminist work of the last century, we have the opportunity to leave that obsession behind. If vital feminist work is going to continue, we need to seize it.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;P.S. The copyright message at the end of that article isn’t exactly permissive. Nevertheless, I hope this post is still acceptable. If it’s not, let me know LiP Magazine.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/875288104</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/875288104</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 22:07:00 +0800</pubDate><category>women</category><category>feminism</category><category>society</category></item><item><title>The final Starcraft 2 trailer.
Mind. Blown. I could watch an...</title><description>&lt;object width="400" height="251"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/C_E83GfWM-A&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="wmode" value="transparent"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/C_E83GfWM-A&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="251" allowFullScreen="true" wmode="transparent"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;The final Starcraft 2 trailer.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mind. Blown. I could watch an entire movie of this.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/845663153</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/845663153</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 00:34:54 +0800</pubDate><category>starcraft 2</category><category>gaming</category><category>awesome</category></item><item><title>The Way I Work: Jason Fried of 37Signals</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.inc.com/magazine/20091101/the-way-i-work-jason-fried-of-37signals.html"&gt;The Way I Work: Jason Fried of 37Signals&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Several good points from Jason Fried in this &lt;a href="http://www.inc.com/magazine/20091101/the-way-i-work-jason-fried-of-37signals.html"&gt;piece&lt;/a&gt;. Starting from the importance of avoiding your e-mail as the first thing in the morning, he describes his typical work day and goes on to condemn the typical 40-hour workweek.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Employees come to the office if and when they feel like it, or else they work from home. I don’t believe in the 40-hour workweek, so we cut all that BS about being somewhere for a certain number of hours. I have no idea how many hours my employees work — I just know they get the work done.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;And meetings:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;They’re a huge waste of time, and they’re costly. It’s not one hour; it’s 10, because you pulled 10 people away from their real work. Plus, they chop your day into small bits, so you have only 20 minutes of free time here or 45 minutes there. Creative people need unstructured time to get in the zone. You can’t do that in 20 minutes.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;He goes on to stress the important of ‘screwing around’.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Everyone should read stuff on the Web that’s goofy or discover something new. I hate it when businesses treat their employees like children. They block Facebook or YouTube because they want their employees to work eight hours a day. But instead of getting more productivity, you’re getting frustration. What’s the point? As long as the work gets done, I don’t care what people do all day.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Read the whole thing &lt;a href="http://www.inc.com/magazine/20091101/the-way-i-work-jason-fried-of-37signals.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/843548908</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/843548908</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 12:11:00 +0800</pubDate><category>productivity</category><category>work</category></item><item><title>Uh-oh. I didn't know a conversation had rules.</title><description>&lt;a href="http://dilbert.com/blog/entry/conversation/"&gt;Uh-oh. I didn't know a conversation had rules.&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;Scott Adams on the rules of conversation.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;A conversation, like dancing, has some rules, although I’ve never seen them stated anywhere. The objective of conversation is to entertain or inform the other person while not using up all of the talking time. A big part of how you entertain another person is by listening and giving your attention. Ideally, your own enjoyment from conversation comes from the other person doing his or her job of being interesting. If you are entertaining yourself at the other person’s expense, you’re doing it wrong.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;These rules, he says, are surprisingly lost on many. And much like him, I was also very much in the cluless camp until I took a course at KTH. It wasn’t specifically on this subject, but a fair bit of time was devoted to active listening and connecting with people.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;…I believed that conversation was a process by which I could demonstrate my cleverness, complain about what was bugging me, and argue with people in order to teach them how dumb they were. To me, listening was the same thing as being bored.  I figured it was the other person’s responsibility to find some entertainment in the conversation.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Read the post &lt;a href="http://dilbert.com/blog/entry/conversation/"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. It starts off with advanced alien life form in a dance club on Earth.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/840549190</link><guid>http://log.ramkumarshankar.com/post/840549190</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 20:16:00 +0800</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
